Eleen is a Scorpio baby born on 10 Nov 1987.
She has a liking for 5566, Yellow, Rabbit, Reading, Music, Gu Zheng, Browsing the Net & Blogging.
She dislikes Crowded Places, Hot Weathers, Lizards & Hypocrites.
I was just discussing about an issue with a friend, and this question(in the title) came into my mind. Okay beacuse of the recent news about 5566 member RenFu, saying that he got his girlfriend pregnant. i came to realise that there are so many cases of people who got pregnant before they decide to tie the knot. This put forward serveral questions. Are they marrying for the sake of the unborn child? their own image infront of their fans? or do they really love each other? what is love? Okay that sounds abit serious. Let's look at another issue, what about couples who decided to live together under the same roof without getting married first? I mean some people said that is a waste of time to get married, why not just stay together? isn't it the same as getting married? isn't that what married couples do? just living together under the same roof? No i think there's more to a marriage. i strongly believe that by being lawfully married its a sign that both parties have made a vow to each other. A marriage comes with alot of responsibility and trust towards one another, this i strongly believe. I don't know whether this belief of mine will change in the future, but for now it still is! okay maybe for people in the showbiz industry, they dun really lead a normal life, thus they can't have a relationship as any normal people does. But that does not give them a reason to behave like that?! Take Renfu's news for example, i really don't know who to believe: the media or what his company says. Or even what he himself said. I mean if the news is really true that his girlfriend is really pregnant then he have no choice but to get married. As thats being responsible. However if he chooses not to, how would his supporters think? note that for 5566, most of their supporters are teenagers that have not experience much about life i should say. How would they view the issue? Although alot of them went to his and her blog respectively giving them well wishes and encouraging her to keep the unborn child. I can't really imagine what it will be like if he is really going to get married?! i mean it will be really weird. Okay not only about renfu, shaowei recently have many negative news also. Him coming out of the pub with a female friend etc... OMG why like that? firstly why you wonder why they don't have any privacy, secondly you wonder why is his lifestyle like that. because i believe everyone has an image of those that they admire and we always hope that that image is kept as it was. Once its broken, you will not be able to really accept the facts. All i can say is that, maybe everyone is different on stage and backstage. The image they protray to you on stage is very glamours and you really believe that all that is true, the audience tend to think that that is what they are in real life as well. but when the news of what they are doing or being percieve to be doing backstage is totally opposite from what they claim or protray themselves to be.. it creates confusion. ~saddening...~
Angeline
August 2006
